"When I fall in love~~~It will be forever~~~"
Does this piece of lyric sounds familiar to you?

I think this is more believable.
"Diamonds are forever~~~~"

Ditto.

Alright.Coming outta the MRT,walking along the passage way to Harbourfront Centre and then to office,this thought waved through my brain outta the blue.
(Stop!Ever wonder why it is outta the blue?Not yellow,green,purple or pink?Does blue represents surprises?Just a thought.)

Ok..My topic for the day is:

'Is Interior and Exterior Mutually Exclusive or not?"

Further elaborations.

If ya attached,look at your partner now.
There is at least a reason why you are still with him/her.
But none is made to be perfect.
Sure there are rooms for improvements,do you actually wish that they(the areas for improvements) can be made?

If you shake your head and tell me ,"No,I just love her/him for the way he is."
I am so gonna slap your head for lying.
Till now,I do not believe that people (esp of my age)are all saints.

Sure you can accept for who he/she is,how he/she looks and behaves,but I am sure that you sure wish that he/she can be how you want to be.

As usual I am gonna list some examples.

(Disclaimer*Names are fake here)

Crystal and George are just another couple down the road.
They love each other,just the way they are.-_-

But there's one thing (or just one of the things) that Crystal wishes desperately that George would change.
Oh she doesnt despise him coz she truely admire this guy's thoughtfulness and all that's on the interior.

Now you think,if you love someone from the interior,nothing else should matters right?
Right.

Exterior wise,George is still doing fine except he got the crappiest hairstyle that he wouldnt change.
What kinda hairstyle am I referring to?
I leave it up to your imagination,whichever hairstyle you think is craps in Twenty and Five.(2005 la~)

Crystal,"Honey,would you please,y'noe go to the salon and change your hair style?"

George,"Not again.Honey,do you really love me?"

Crystal,"Of coz I do..."

George,"If you love me for who I am,you shouldnt keep nagging me to change my hair style.This is the way I like it.Why are you still so concerned about how I look?You love me not becoz of how I look?"

Crystal,"I do!But loving you for who you are internally doesnt mean I have to totally accept how you look externally.They are mutually exclusive!"

George,"NOT!"

Blah blah~

And flip it around,let's see how the pancake is cooking.

Crystal and George are just another couple down the road.
They love each other,just the way they are.-_-

George is definitely happy with the way Crystal looks.
She's hot and knows how to 'maintain' her looks.

But that's all for externally.Internally Crystal could be worse than the combination of his mother and mother in law.

She just nags non stop and gossips practically anything and everything.
Other than that,she is doing fine internally.

Crystal,"George,pls stop dressing like that.You are not gonna wear this to town,are you?Blah~~~~"

George,"Honey,would you pls stop nagging.I am happy with the way I am,the way I dress,the way I comb my hair.You are worse than my mother.Would you stop,pls."

Crystal,"What?Now you are despising me!I am only saying for your own good."

George,"Own good?God,I am not a 3 year old.You dont judge me by how I look?You dont love me coz how I look.I am happy with everything of you,if only you dont nag like that!"

Crystal,"Ha!You love me only becoz how I look!"

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Mutually exclusive?
Ok,I am NOT making any personal attacks here to anyone.

As before,I am just pointing out some things I dont understand in life.

Suppose you love this one for who he/she is,why are you still bother about the way he/she dress,the way he/she talks,the way he/she behaves in public?

When the love spell wears off,all the imperfections surface.

You doubt yourself.
Are you eating your own words or have you change?

You didnt seem to notice how bad she/he dress.
You didnt seem to notice that he is actually balding and she got dandruff.
You didnt seem to realise how bad he looks when he eats that drumstick, and how irritating she is when she keeps on playing the 'controller' in this relationship.

You still love him/her,right?
He/she is still the same person that makes your heart skips a beat,makes you laugh and still the one that can console you,dry your tears,makes you laugh etc.

But why there are just something that you cant stand internally/externally about each other?

My taking is like this.

Being in love with each other doesnt necessary means that you are fully happy and/or satisfied about the other person.

While you love him,you still dislike the way his hair is.
While you love him,you still dislike his gaming habits.

While you love her,you still dislike the way she throws her tantrums.
While you love her,you still dislike the way she dresses sometimes.

It takes complete love,courage and faith to disregard every single flaw of the person you love.
That's to say that you wont mind your guy dig and flick his 'gold' away in public.
That's to say that you wont mind your gal wears sleeveless,unshave.
That's to say that you wont mind that your guy rather spend every weekend playing mah jong than going out with you.
That's to say that you wont mind that your gal nagging you from left ear to right nostril.

Can you do that?

Me...
I can't...yet.
Maybe sometime I can.
That is when I stop loving you.Then I wont give a damn how you look or behave.

Can you now say that our love are all flawed?

I beg to differ.

I just think loving a person internally and externally are mutually exclusive.

*Please claps*

*bow*

Hehz*